Britney Spears Fat

Ginni asked:


Not just against people of other races, but people of other religions, ethnicities, genders and even body size! He makes nasty comment so often it is as though they are normal everyday things that are just part of the human vocabulary, like the words and, or, the. He is a regular user of the “N-word” and literally has nothing to say about the black race. he classifies every single black person as basically every single stereotype at once and it makes me sick. He does the same with those of Arabiac or middle easter ethnicities and of course refers to them as “terrorists”. As if that is not enough, he is the same way toward gays and lesbians, and refers to them as ever crude name ever invented and calls them all abominations to God. He then attacks my faith, because I am a devout Christian, and he wonders why I am accepting of “their behavior”. He is the same way about “fat people”…PS, to him kate winslet is a fat ass, as is britney spears (pre-kfed!) and calls me fat (5′3″ - 125 lbs)!
It drives me nuts. I get so angry and upset. I am accepting of everyone and love everyone, regardless of their race, ethnicity, background, religion, sexual orientation or outward appearance. I know I shouldn’t let it get to me, because it is just the Devil trying to provoke me to get angry and harbor resentment against him, but it is so hard to even be in the same room as him anymore. I worry about when my husband and I hav children, and how we are going to raise them to be loving and accepting if every time they are around his father they will hear things like that coming out of their grandpas mouth. in fact most of his family members (other than his mother and his little cousin) are like that. They weren’t like this before we married, or i guess they were but never showed it around me, but now that i am part of the family it is all coming out. None of them are even half as bad as he is though. What should I do. How should I handle this?
I also have to stress that this is not just something that happens once in a while. These are things that are said everyday, in every sentence. Every conversation that is held always comes back to race, sexual orientation, etc… We can’t even have dinner with him, because that is what he talks about at the table. He actually tells his wife (who is very thin, like, gorgeously built for a woman of 50) that she needs to stop eating and get a **** job if she ever wants him to love her again,and that he finds her disgusting. He also actually taught our 3 year old cousin what a “fag” was and taught him to say the N-word to black people, cuz they weren’t as good as “us white folk” and they don’t deserve to be here. !!!!!!!! It’s is so bad!

James